Family home in a divorce

What happens to the family home in a divorce?

For many couples, the family home is their most valuable asset—and often the most emotional. One of the first questions people ask when separating is:

“Who gets to keep the house?”

The simple answer is that there is no automatic rule. Every family is different, and the outcome depends on your individual circumstances, finances and, most importantly, the needs of any children.

Does it matter whose name is on the deeds?

Not necessarily.

Even if the family home is legally owned by one spouse, the court can still consider it as part of the financial settlement. The court’s aim is to reach a fair outcome rather than simply follow legal ownership.

What are the options?

There are several ways the family home can be dealt with following divorce:

1. Selling the property

The home is sold and, after paying off the mortgage and costs, the remaining equity is divided between the parties. This is often the simplest solution when both parties need to move on.

2. One person keeps the home

One spouse may remain in the property by buying out the other’s interest or offsetting the value against other assets, such as pensions or savings.

3. Delaying the sale

Where children are involved, the court may allow one parent and the children to remain living in the property until a future event, such as the youngest child finishing full-time education. The property is then sold at a later date.

Will everything be split 50/50?

Not always.

Although an equal division is often the starting point in longer marriages, the court considers many factors, including:

– The welfare of any children.
– Each person’s income and earning capacity.
– Housing needs.
– Age and health.
– The length of the marriage.
– Contributions made by each spouse, both financial and as a homemaker or parent.

The overall aim is to achieve a fair settlement based on your family’s circumstances.

What if there are children?

The court places significant importance on ensuring children have suitable housing.

In many cases, this means the parent with whom the children primarily live may remain in the family home for a period of time, even if the property is eventually sold. Every case depends on the family’s financial position.

Can my spouse make me leave?

Not necessarily.

If you are married or in a civil partnership, you may have rights to remain in the family home even if it is owned solely by your spouse. In some cases, you can register your home rights to help protect your position while financial matters are being resolved.

Contact Rachael at rachael.chadwick@wellerslawgroup.com to discuss more.

Taking your child abroad

Do I need my ex-partner’s permission to take our child abroad?

Before you take your child abroad you need permission of everyone with parental responsibility or from the court.  The consent of the other parent is not required for travel up to 28 days if you have court order setting out the child lives with you.

Who has parental responsibility?

Mother’s automatically have parental responsibility when a child is born.  Fathers also have it if they are married to the mother when the child is born or are listed on the child’s birth certificate.

How do I get permission?

It is advisable to take a permission to travel letter.  This is a letter signed by the other parent confirming that they give consent to the trip.  The letter should include:

  1. Full names and contact information of both parents and passport details
  2. The child’s full name, date of birth and passport details
  3. Details of the trip, including destination, duration and dates of travel
  4. Signature of the parent providing consent

Check the requirements of the country you are travelling to as some require this letter to be notarised.

If is also advisable if you hold a different surname to your child to carry their birth certificate showing the names of both parents and if one parent has since married, their marriage certificate.

What if they do not give consent?

If consent is refused you will need to obtain an order from the court allowing you to take the child abroad.

To make the court application you will need to provide details of the following:

  • Destination
  • Travel dates
  • Contact details for everyone with parental responsibility

Contact Rachael at rachael.chadwick@wellerslawgroup.com to discuss more.

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